Skip to main content

Next time I bring my family...


When I go see a movie from a book I read, I go into it thinking what I see on the big screen will be different from what I see in my head. In some instances such as The Lightning Thief, I am disappointed. While in others, I am pleasantly surprised as in Stand By Me. And then there are the ones that I contemplate whether I should go see it in the theaters. For me most recently, that movie was The Help.

While reading the book, I became a part of it. It did not matter that the setting took place in a time (1963) and location (Jackson, Mississippi) for which I have no familiarity. Characters felt as if they were friends. It was a book that got inside of me. A book that needed time to roll around in my head for a few days after I finished it. Needless to say, when I heard there was a movie coming out, I was excited about it. Albeit, a bit apprehensive as well. Would the movie have the same impact on me the book did?
I walked into a crowded theater today shortly before the movie began. A diversity of age, race, and gender filled the seats. Black, white, old, young, men, and women. All of us bringing our own experiences to the story. I wondered how we would each view it. (For those who don’t know, the book/movie takes place in Jackson, Mississippi in 1963. A college-educated white woman who is aspiring to be a writer gathers stories about working for white women from black maids.) I was soon to find out Hollywood’s interpretation.

Within five minutes, I was sitting in Jackson, MS at Albileen’s kitchen table as she tells her story. For the next two and a half hours, I was in on the secret. I laughed. I cried. I enjoyed the commentary from the older woman in front of me. While the story was not exactly told the way it was in the book, it was told in a way that mesmerized me none-the-less. Even when watching news footage of JFK’s assassination and Medgar Evar’s shooting a realism to the time period occurred. (These were the times I thought of the older generation sitting in the theater. I would love to have a couple of hours to sit with them and hear their stories about the time period and living in the south.)

The story does not tie itself up neatly. Nor does life. As the credits began to roll, I sat looking at the screen slowly coming back to find myself in 2011 in Wake Forest, NC. I began to wonder…..whose story needs to be told in 2011?

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The Hardest One Yet

 From the time I began this blog, I made the conscious choice that I would be honest and open in the moment – whatever is going on. For the most part, I have done that.  After struggling about whether to write about this particular challenge (let alone share it), I chose to do the uncomfortable and do both – write and share. “Your certification has not even been processed yet. Probably won’t happen until at least the middle of January.”  I took a deep breath as I heard those words a couple weeks ago and I realized what that meant. Christmas would look very different than originally planned. The retroactive pay that Santa was counting on to make the holiday something special for our family would not be coming. I took a deep breath as I hung up the phone and walked out of my classroom, despair bombarding the hope and excitement of the upcoming holiday. A tornado of thoughts began whirling in my head as I walked to the guidance office. Playing with our budget in my head trying to

The Next Chapter Begins...

The first round of tears happened during the 8 th grade promotion. It has been such a wonderful year with all of them – 7 th and 8 th graders alike. The second round of tears came when I learned I do not have a contract for next year. I will not be returning to Benson Middle School unless the displaced teachers do not jump at the chance for my classroom.   Right after she told me, I did my best to remain professional and keep the tears at bay. Unfortunately, they came anyway. About the time the tears hit my eyes, an email a dear friend sent me when I first wrote about the contract situation came to mind: “There is always a reason for things. Maybe God wants you to move on and inspire other students.” I love what she says. I feel that with my whole being. However, it did not make hearing that I have no job any easier. So now what? I am floating off the edge again. My family began the year in two different states. We are reunited again in North Carolina. Both Tony and I with

Aging sucks.....or does it?

Upon first thought, watching a parent age sucks. Unnoticeable at first. A bit of a stoop, some creaking in the knees, whitening of the hair. The doctor’s visits begin, as do the pills One for high blood pressure, another to thin the blood, and a handful of vitamins to top it off. The signs are there, but it is easier to see him as he has always been. My father, a pillar of strength. Until my pillar was knocked off-kilter. A simple surgery and the mortality of my father looked me square in the eye when the drugs took hold of his brain. Amidst his fidgeting and confusion, I realized…AGING SUCKS! And then….enlightenment dawned upon me….AGING IS BEAUTIFUL Wrinkles tell of smiles while silver hair speaks a life of memories. Knees creaky after years of kneeling in prayer, offering up a lap, and climbing up the stairs for one more kiss goodnight. Almost forty-eight years of memories nestled in my heart. Memories of my father. Taking us to church each Sunday Building and fixing